What goes around, comes around
By Nithila Kularatne
Published 6 April 2021
When we do something good, we believe that in return we will receive good, but switching that saying around to doing a harmful act shall give the user consequences in return.
We all desire many things, the most necessary thing we will always go for is to lead a comfortable life filled with nothing to worry about. But it takes more than the facilities to build this vision as it requires good qualities which take a while to develop as we are not willing to do that in our lifestyle, This will lead to us going forward with negativity and harmful behavior, which in future will affect you as it is not a healthy lifestyle to lead. So building the structure of your personality is the baseline for your vision to come true in a proper manner.
We all want to live in an equal world filled with comfort and ease, so the same applies to the way we treat people depending on a wholesome or unwholesome act. So the question, you must ask yourself is do we want to live in the same manner as of when a person is badly mistreated or do we want to live a better life where everyone is treated with equal respect and kindness. It is based on your choosing that will decide on your life’s choices.
When we choose to do good, it pans out in a way to be infectious in even helping others including people who are close to you. So the need of living well does not have to be a selfish choice as it is shared among others. You too are able to develop good values towards people resulting in the development of a mannerist person. In that case you will be able to cope with the idea of respect and kindness.
Most are frustrated about being defined, so they go to do harmful things, yet they do not realize what they are actually getting into. At first it is satisfying to use his or her power to do anything they desire, but later on, it is too late to realize that they have committed a very serious act without thinking straight. That is why we must think before we leap as sometimes we are not aware of what we are actually doing. When we take it to a equation of a negative behavior equals to a negative life meaning that you would not be very happy or joyful, rather painful, suffering and traumatic in some cases. These are the consequences people will face if they commit a wrongful act.
In order to maintain a balanced nature, you must have self control over what you do, you should be able to analyze what is wrong and right. That way you are in your senses and it will develop further with the amount of self control you learn everyday. If you do still feel frustrated and angry, rather than taking it out on people, you might as well find some stress relieving activities to calm you down. At the end of the day, your life would be fully completed to be a good one.
