The way you treat others can apply to your wellbeing

By Nithila Kularatne

Published on 14 April 2021

In the case of an environment, different activities can take place among people, most of the time, there is a toxic environment of mistreatment. The people affected by the act of mistreatment by a bully shall experience a tough upbringing to the environment of the particular location, for example school, when a new student is transferred to a school environment he or she is not used to, this gives an opportunity for the bully to mistreat him for his own pleasure. For anybody, at first, this may be good fun, but would be good fun for them, if they too were badly mistreated as the victim of the bullying attack.

The situation of a bully ending up in the same way of his own victims is not a punishment of his mistake by fate, rather it is only a cycle of human life showing that bullying is a widespread disease that will happen to anybody, no matter him being a bully or of any high rank. After all, bullying is for the bullies entertainment being that he would not care about the morality of who he is trying to mistreat, for example if we take our favorite television shows actors, if they satisfy our entertainment, we would not go to care about the wrong things he has done in case he is removed from the cast. So in this case, the act of humanity of helping people with the same mission does not exist in the act of mistreatment. 

In order for the bully to avoid the lack of his privilege from his title, which is not possible, he has to make amends for his mistake on mistreating innocent bystanders, just for laughs, as he now realizes, he must treat people the way he wants to be treated. This realization will start from one bully, but it can spread widely if only there is a reduction of mistreatment, this can be done by the awareness of the dangers of bullying as it too can affect bullies, this will strike fear into the bullies by making them stop it. At the finalization of knowing how mistreatment can deeply hurt anybody including the act of bullying children, all of us can live without guilt and fear, and rather live with people, who will be there to support and help you in dire need.