No grudge is worth loosing the time with a loved one

By Nithila Kularatne

Published on 17 April 2021

Sometimes families will fight, argue and such, but at the end of the day, these families will unite once again with love and happiness. Sometimes life will make these short fallouts between families, a mistake, that will haunt them forever. What is meant by this situation is that of when a family member would have unpredictably passed away. So just imagine, this was a teenager, whose parents would have been angry at him for doing something wrong, sure this may be okay, but not if for the past 24 hours, they would torture the child of what his parents disliked of his action. Then the next day, when they realize a complication has happened to their son and he could not recover, means on his last day, he could not even have a good day, all because of a unnecessary anger. Today there are enough of parents who would mourn for their dead children, and wish they could make it up to them, but the sad reality is that it will never be fulfilled. So to the lucky parents, who still have their children, love them every second, understand that they make mistakes, after all, they are just youngsters, so be there to help them, rather than making them feel bad about themselves. So dear parents be grateful to your children for as long as they live.

Even siblings from a young age like to taunt each other, but when they use sensitive actions towards each other, this will cause a unpleasant emotions not only to their bond, but also to themselves as individuals. This will cause a separation among each others friendship and brotherhood. This acts as a disadvantage only when it comes to adulthood, where your parents are not alive to help you, so if you are blessed with siblings, yet your relationship is not strong, you feel isolated and helpless. Being that some people do not have any relatives or siblings, consider yourself lucky as some or most may not have one to keep company or provide love and happiness to prosper your life.

With reference to both stories, these too can apply to friends, Parents and other loved ones you may have. You may not realize it now, but when it is too late to make amends, only then you will realize your grudge or bitter anger did nothing to satisfy your ego, as only an emotion can effect you gravely in this matter. Always put your loved ones number one to your schedule and to your loving self. As humans, we all have a limited life span on this earth, so if you desire comfort way before your very last days, it is better you start now, whether you are a friend, Parent, Sibling, Relative or Child, there is not excuse for you to be a better human being to the only people who will be there for you till the end.